Slaying the Green-Eyed Monster (#34)

First, my apologies to those of you who actually have green eyes. I’m really referring here to the monster of jealousy. If you are going to use your God-given gifts and talents, if you are going to make an impact in your world, or pioneer any kind of work, it is vital that you slay this creature; and do it – as we say – “like yesterday!” This creature is very pervasive and troublesome; always turning up unexpectedly and from unexpected places. What is this creature’s goal? To destabilize your purpose in life and disrupt any projects you have going. And how is this achieved? Actually, in number of ways: Criticism is the major one, the kind that is unnecessary; and ‘seemingly helpful’ suggestions on how to improve and better what you are doing. The result can be catastrophic and you could be left doubting your ability and with a shaken confidence in yourself. Having said that, we must be able to discern between helpful and hurtful ...